7 effective ways to prevent jealousy from ruining your relationship

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Jealousy could scatter your thoughts in different
parts and bring out the ugliness in you

To be jealous makes you human but when it
becomes too excessive, it could cause irreparable
damage to your relationship and self-esteem.
Jealousy could scatter your thoughts in different
parts and bring out the ugliness in you. But to curb
it,  you’ll need to collect and rearrange the way you
think.
As difficult as it is, you’ll have to train and practice
how to think differently and you’ll be be surprised
that it’ll be a part of you in no time. No matter how
bad your emotions get, you’re strong enough to
control them.
Holly Riordan of All Women State lists a few tricks
to help you overcome your jealousy:
1. Work on your relationships: If you truly trust
that your partner will never leave you or
#cheat on you, then there’s nothing to be
jealous about. Even if a #beautiful girl pops up
on TV or walks by in a bar, the thought of going
after her won’t cross his mind. That’s why the
best way to get rid of your jealousy is to take a
close #look at your relationship and work on
fixing the reasons why you’re doubting your
man’s faithfulness.
2. Change your appearance: If you get jealous of
every girl you see with #beautiful hair, head to
the salon to get yours cut. If you get jealous of
celebrities who live in mansions, put in a lot of
effort at work so you can get a promotion and
save up your #money for a nice house of your
own
3. Ignore your bad qualities: Make a list of the
things that you like about yourself, and what
you don’t like about yourself. Now, for the next
week, avoid looking at those negative #things
when you walk past a mirror. Only allow
yourself to #look at the beautiful aspects of
yourself. When you start viewing yourself as
pretty, you’ll stop being so jealous of every
beauty queen you see.
4. Don’t compare yourself to others: What’s the
point in comparing yourself to the celebrities
you see on magazines or the strangers you
see on the street? You aren’t entering a
competition against them. They’re just normal
#people like you are, so there’s no reason to
judge them (or yourself).
5. Become inspired by other girls: If you see a
#woman with a cute shade of lipstick on, don’t
be jealous of her. Ask her where she got it so
you can buy it yourself. Instead of being
jealous of the pretty #things you see, use them
as motivation. Allow #beautiful women to
inspire you to buy new makeup products and
outfits.
6. Find the root of the cause: Why exactly are you
jealous of the valedictorian of your school? Is it
because you wish you could go to a good
#college like she will, because you wish you
could give a speech in front of everyone like
she will, or because your parents are
disappointed that you didn’t do as well as she
did? Once you find the root of the problem, it’ll
be easier to fix it.
7. Focus on yourself: If you have a severe issue
when it comes to jealousy, it’s probably due to
your own insecurities. That’s why you should
take some time for yourself in order to figure
out how you could build your self-esteem. The
more #time alone you have, the more you’ll
learn to love yourself. Once you do, your
jealousy will disappear.

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